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Help me!!!!! Son 0-7 so far
He's hit the ball hard thrice but right at someone, struck out twice, once looking on a low and away pitch, and got his weight way out front on a change-up and dribbled it to second and
his last swing yesterday was what appeared to be a half swing to the third baseman.
He plays on a 10-year-old travel squad and last year he hit .395 on a team that
hit .340 on the year. He's always been a good hitter, but now, we're seeing a lot
more change of speed, including sadly, hooks. Any advice? I think his last swing yesterday showed he is losing confidence and is becoming tentative.
How To Keep The Game Out Of Their Head
It doesn't matter whether a kid is failing math, they all can figure a BA. They
all have a preseason goal like "I'm going to hit .400." They start off 0-7 and
go home and extrapolate the math and "I've got to hit .575 the rest of the
season to hit .400. This season SUCKS!" It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
This player hit the ball hard three times! Had they found a hole, he's a happy
camper! But because he is concerned with his BA, he is " losing confidence and
becoming tentative." Sounds like a SLUMP to me.
Batting Averages are so subjective as to be almost meaningless. If the
scorekeepers' son is a pitcher, all balls that are not converted into outs are
errors. All balls that get by the catcher are "pass balls" not "wild pitches."
Hence Junior's ERA stays low even though he gave up 10. If the scorekeeper's son
is a hitter, those boots are all bad hops or "too hot to handle." I once noticed
that one high school team had 5 players hitting over .500! Yet, their record was 3-16.
Must have been some pretty bad pitching.
I keep stats on my team but I no longer post them in the dugout. I got tired of
Dads coming up to me with their interpretation of their son's stats and arguing
that I should change an error to a hit. I really don't care what their BA is. I
don't need to see their BA to know if they are a productive offensive player or
not.
As I have said before, a player must learn that he can only concern himself with
those things over which he has control. He can only control:
- The amount of preparation he has done so that he can expect to have success.
- The pitch at which he chooses to swing
- How hard he runs to first.
He cannot control whether the SS stabs his rope, the umpire makes a bad call,
or the scorekeeper calls his shot in the hole an error. To concern oneself
with any of those things is completely counterproductive.
Baseball is a game of failure. Only failure 2 of 3 times for your career and you
will end up in the Hall of Fame. But you failed twice as much as you succeed.
More players are driven out of the game not because they can't play, but because
they can't handle the failures that come with the game.
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